Jealousy is really a sign that the man truly loves a woman. He cherishes her and wants to protect her, which is the reason why he becomes jealous of a few things and a few people 相睇. But what happens when those “few” things and people get more and more? That’s the time that jealousy is not productive anymore.
As the woman in the relationship 香港婚姻介紹所, you need to watch out for these warning signs to find out if your partner is not the “gentleman” he is setting out to be:
1. Too much persistence to spend time with you hk matchmaker. This is not a bad thing, in itself. Which hot-blooded male would not want to spend more time with you? However, alarm bells should start ringing in your head if he insists on spending more and more time with you that it eats up your time with your buddies and friends offline. If your work ends at 5, he’ll insist on chatting with you on the dot. If you get in late, he’ll ask you why, who were you with, and when you got out of work, and how much travel time you had. In short, he’s monitoring out your social activities. By making sure that you know he’s waiting will pressure you to go back home ASAP and go online with him.
2. Too much interest with your social life. He would insist on knowing each and everyone of your friends and family members. When he sees you chatting or talking with someone he was not introduced to, then will get irrationally angry and demand who is on the other line. Why does he do this? To put it simply, he’s worried that you’ll dump him for that “guy” on the phone or chatroom. He doesn’t have love for himself, so he’s going to constantly ask why someone as great as you would love him and would constantly fear that you will leave him. He would also say how each friend is a bad influence to you, and you’d do better to dump them and spend more time with him.
3. Too much concern on your fashion statements. Admit it, as women, we love to make a fashion statement. We always try to look our very best when we go out, right? Even if we’re only meeting someone through the web cam. This is where you can usually find out first if he’s possessive and/or jealous. How? He will try to interfere with the way you dress. If he sees you wearing a particular style of clothing, then he will insist that you change into something else. He will insist that you can’t wear certain shorts, skirts, and your jeans, and will insist that you let him know all of the outfits that you will wear. If this starts to happen, then speak up and tell your man firmly, that you will wear whatever you want and he’ll have to live with it. But again, say this gently, so as not to arouse an even bigger monster inside him: anger. He will also start attacking your self-esteem little by little, making criticisms on how you look in certain outfits, and then telling you that you should feel lucky that a girl like you has a millionaire match like him. Do not believe this. You are an extremely beautiful woman inside and out, and he’s the one who’s lucky that he has you.
It is always great for women to feel loved and wanted, and a little bit of jealous actions will be an indication. However, it has to have its limits and should be kept in control.